Episodes
Tuesday Nov 12, 2024
Episode 34 - Self-Love
Tuesday Nov 12, 2024
Tuesday Nov 12, 2024
This episode was inspired by Michelle’s reading of Matthew Hussey’s book Love Life. We share our thoughts on self-love and explore some of Matthew’s ideas on self-love. Robyn gets some more sleep and Michelle goes to see Jordan Rakei.
Recorded on November 10th, 2024
Timestamps:
(0:20) Intro (0:47) Robyn’s check-in (4:28) Michelle’s check-in (11:20) Main topic: Self-love (27:50) Could having core confidence stop us from doing things? (41:29) Focusing on the day-to-day (51:33) Building core confidence (1:06:03) Do we need to tap into who we are? (1:11:36) Our intentions (1:14:13) Outro
Resources, references, and further exploration:
Ben Fensome’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somebenfen/?hl=en Jordan Rakei: https://www.jordanrakei.com/#/ Katie Tupper: https://www.katietuppermusic.com/
Books mentioned:
Love Life by Matthew Hussey: https://www.harpercollins.ca/9780063294387/love-life/
Quotes, ideas, and insights:
Selected quotes from Love Life: “We have tried in these pages to rebrand love, to move love from the world of feeling and plant it firmly in the territory of doing. It’s the difference between love, the noun, and to love, the verb, a shift that’s so important it’s even right there in the title of this book. This change helps us set aside how we feel about someone and look instead at what they are actually doing—how much are they investing in us, and what are they doing to progress, nurture, and safeguard the relationship? This shift is just as necessary when it comes to loving ourselves. Too often romantic love is the model for loving ourselves, and that’s precisely why it’s not working. We have it backward. Loving yourself isn’t the goal; it’s the action. Self-love is the starting line. Core confidence is not just a one-time epiphany; it’s a practice, with immediate daily application. It’s actually something you can get better at.” - Page 196 “But when we stop thinking of love in terms of hormonal waves of feeling, and start thinking of love as a verb, we can stop worrying about liking ourselves as a precondition for self-love. Loving ourselves comes first. “Loving ourselves” is proactive here. In this rebrand, we have to start seeing the word loving in this phrase as interchangeable with “taking care of,” “investing in,” “encouraging,” “nurturing,” and “standing up for.” Self-love is a verb.” - Page 197 “Look at how much time we spend worrying about other people and how we treat them. Was I polite enough? Did I talk too much? Did I tip enough? I hope what I said yesterday didn’t upset my sister. I need to call that friend to check in with how he is. Meanwhile, we barely consider how we treat ourselves. We may value being kind to others, but how often do we think of kindness as something we should extend to the person on our driver’s license? We carefully monitor how much we ask of colleagues, then dump a completely unmanageable to-do list on ourselves. We encourage friends knowing it helps them thrive, then berate ourselves for underperforming. We shower people with gratitude for the things they’ve done for us, then barely acknowledge the bravery and sacrifice it’s taken us to get to this point in life. Instead, whenever we have a quiet moment, we pinpoint the exact instances in our personal history where we have failed ourselves and others.” - Page 199 “Imagine someone asking you why you love yourself, and you shaking your head just like the parent who says, “Because that’s my kid.” It has nothing to do with how great you are. No traits, attributes, or achievements are necessary. “Because I’m my person,” you say, as if it were completely obvious. Because, when you think about it, it is.” - Page 201 “This is why loving ourselves has to be taken much more seriously than waiting around for a feeling about ourselves. We have to make the decision to love ourselves like it’s our job . . . because it is. It’s not that the cavalry isn’t coming. It’s that we’re the cavalry.” - Page 201
Links:
Learn more about Robyn at https://www.robynlester.com/ Learn more about Michelle at https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/ Follow Stream of Art on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/streamofartpodcast/ Follow Robyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynlester.art/ Follow Michelle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellemonettemusic/ Subscribe to Michelle’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC64o4jtMmYWJE-7qVoLxtQA Please feel free to send questions and comments to streamofartpodcast@gmail.com Connect with like-minded artists and creatives at our Discord server: https://discord.gg/mHa8GSQqsv
Credits:
Art by: Robyn Lester Music by: Michelle Monette Editing by: Michelle Monette
Thursday Nov 07, 2024
Episode 33 - Acceptance and Managing Expectations
Thursday Nov 07, 2024
Thursday Nov 07, 2024
In this episode, we discuss the role acceptance plays in being able to manage the expectations we have about ourselves and our lives. Robyn says “yes, and” to more acting and improv classes, and Michelle finishes writing a song.
Recorded on November 3rd, 2024
Timestamps:
(0:20) Intro (0:48) Robyn’s Check-In (3:17) Michelle’s Check-In (13:23) Main topic: Acceptance and managing expectations (51:05) Outro and our intentions for the next couple of weeks
Resources, references, and further exploration:
David Epstein on Diary of a CEO: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MsERVcx0Qg8&t=217s
Books mentioned:
Songwriting Without Boundaries by Pat Pattison: https://www.patpattison.com/store
Quotes, ideas, and insights:
“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” - Reinhold Neibur
Links:
Learn more about Robyn at https://www.robynlester.com/ Learn more about Michelle at https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/ Follow Stream of Art on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/streamofartpodcast/ Follow Robyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynlester.art/ Follow Michelle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellemonettemusic/ Subscribe to Michelle’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC64o4jtMmYWJE-7qVoLxtQA Please feel free to send questions and comments to streamofartpodcast@gmail.com Connect with like-minded artists and creatives at our Discord server: https://discord.gg/mHa8GSQqsvOctober Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7FOKswk9KfUcmFdUPhutZD?si=a6ca70e4ea7445de
Credits:
Art by: Robyn Lester Music by: Michelle Monette Editing by: Michelle Monette
Thursday Oct 10, 2024
Episode 32 - Self-Sabotage: How We Keep Ourselves Stuck
Thursday Oct 10, 2024
Thursday Oct 10, 2024
In this episode, we discuss the ways we unintentionally hold ourselves back. We explore the importance of understanding ourselves when it comes to addressing unhelpful patterns, and share some of the things we might tell ourselves that repeatedly get in our way. Robyn rewatches Buffy and Michelle still loves her Kindle.
Recorded on October 6th, 2024
Timestamps:
(0:20) Intro (0:53) Robyn’s check-in (6:47) Michelle’s check-in (13:18) Main topic: Self-sabotage (29:05) What self-sabotage can look like (49:25) Productivity (52:05) Final thoughts (56:00) Robyn’s plans (56:44) Michelle’s plans (58:46) Outro
Resources, references, and further exploration:
Buffy the Vampire Slayer: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0118276/ Odd Bunch: https://www.oddbunch.ca/ Caroline Girvan - Personal Trainer - Free YouTube Workouts: https://www.youtube.com/@CarolineGirvan
Books mentioned:
The Tell Tale by Clare Ashton: https://rclareashton.wordpress.com/books/the-tell-tale/ The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Courage-to-Be-Disliked/Ichiro-Kishimi/9781668065969 The Practice by Seth Godin: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/653661/the-practice-by-seth-godin/9780593328972The War of Art by Steven Pressfield: https://stevenpressfield.com/books/the-war-of-art/Slow Productivity by Cal Newport: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/722732/slow-productivity-by-cal-newport/ Perennial Seller by Ryan Holiday: https://perennialseller.com/
Links:
Learn more about Robyn at https://www.robynlester.com/ Learn more about Michelle at https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/Apply for lessons or coaching with Michelle here: https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/musiclessonsandcoachingFollow Stream of Art on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/streamofartpodcast/ Follow Robyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynlester.art/ Follow Michelle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellemonettemusic/ Subscribe to Michelle’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC64o4jtMmYWJE-7qVoLxtQA Please feel free to send questions and comments to streamofartpodcast@gmail.com Connect with like-minded artists and creatives at our Discord server: https://discord.gg/mHa8GSQqsvListen to October's Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7FOKswk9KfUcmFdUPhutZD?si=d45053bfb7ca4d0d
Credits:
Podcast art by: Robyn Lester Theme music by: Michelle Monette Podcast editing by: Michelle Monette
Tuesday Sep 24, 2024
Episode 31 - Our Favourite Stories
Tuesday Sep 24, 2024
Tuesday Sep 24, 2024
Following on the heels of our last episode on stories, this week, we’re each sharing a few of our own favourite stories. We also share a quick overview of the songs from our September playlist. Robyn starts acting classes and Michelle loves her new Kindle.
Recorded on September 22nd, 2024
Timestamps:
(0:20) Intro (1:03) Robyn’s check-in (9:29) Michelle’s check-in (14:56) Main topic: Our favourite stories (16:05) Robyn: Harry Potter (23:10) Michelle: Dresden Files (29:31) Buffy tangent (31:17) Happy 17th Birthday Dresden (31:42) Robyn: Pride and Prejudice (36:12) Michelle: Mass Effect (46:43) Robyn: Free Willy (57:27) Michelle: “Walt Grace’s Submarine Test, January 1967” by John Mayer (1:01:21) Robyn: Honourable Mentions (1:10:41) Robyn’s September playlist picks (1:13:37) Michelle’s September playlist picks (1:19:52) The next few weeks (1:20:42) Music lessons and coaching with Michelle (1:22:45) Outro
Resources, references, and further exploration:
Harry Potter: https://www.wizardingworld.com/ Dresden Files: https://www.jim-butcher.com/books/dresden Buffy the Vampire Slayer: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0118276/ ”What’s Your Thing?” commercial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OX6qUFm1HsI Pride and Prejudice 1995 TV Mini Series: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0112130/ North and South TV Mini Series: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0417349/ Mass Effect: https://www.ea.com/games/mass-effect/mass-effect-legendary-edition?setLocale=en-us Being a PSYCHOPATH in Mass Effect - Video by Kevduit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_R3c-wD0N6A&t=9s Free Willy movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0106965/ Blackfish Documentary: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2545118/ The Walrus and the Whistleblower Documentary (starring Phil Demers): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt12286048/ ”Walt Grace’s Submarine Test, January 1967” by John Mayer - Lyric video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SrcMMyNeJJs Jurassic Park movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107290/ Twister movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0117998/ Twisters movie (the new one): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt12584954/ Shane Koyczan: https://www.shanekoyczan.com/ Cast Away movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0162222/ Ableton Live & APC40 MKII Live Performance - Ships by Rachel K Collier: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ztYUcOX-yzM Noise Above Our Heads (James Blake cover) by Native Dancer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZLWTReok4NM
Organizations helping whales:
https://whale.org/ https://savethewhales.org/ https://www.canadianwhaleinstitute.ca/ https://uk.whales.org/
Books mentioned:
Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/286387/pride-and-prejudice-by-jane-austen-edited-with-an-introduction-and-notes-by-vivien-jones-original-penguin-classics-introduction-by-tony-tanner-cover-by-coralie-bickford-smith/9780141040349 Death at SeaWorld by David Kirby: https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250031259/deathatseaworld Jurassic Park by Michael Crichton: https://www.michaelcrichton.com/works/jurassic-park/ Pivot by Jenny Blake: https://www.pivotmethod.com/about-the-book
Links:
Learn more about Robyn at https://www.robynlester.com/ Learn more about Michelle at https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/ Apply for lessons or coaching with Michelle here: https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/musiclessonsandcoaching Follow Stream of Art on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/streamofartpodcast/ Follow Robyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynlester.art/ Follow Michelle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellemonettemusic/ Subscribe to Michelle’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC64o4jtMmYWJE-7qVoLxtQA Please feel free to send questions and comments to streamofartpodcast@gmail.com Connect with like-minded artists and creatives at our Discord server: https://discord.gg/mHa8GSQqsv Listen to our September playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6fjUTgqUP1JG304gTQ8fkS?si=0adfb3b972ff4c01
Credits:
Podcast art by: Robyn Lester Theme music by: Michelle Monette Podcast editing by: Michelle Monette
Wednesday Sep 11, 2024
Episode 30 - Stories
Wednesday Sep 11, 2024
Wednesday Sep 11, 2024
Story time! We all love a good story, and in this episode, we explore why storytelling is such an important part of being human. We also also consider in what ways stories can work against us, and what constitutes a good story. Robyn arranges flowers and befriends Disney characters, and Michelle (finally!) cleans out her filing cabinet.
Recorded on September 9th, 2024
Timestamps:
(0:20) Intro (0:51) Robyn’s check-in (7:52) Michelle’s check-in (10:29) Robyn’s bonus fun/interesting thing (11:51) Main topic start: Stories (14:24) Hearing the music more than the lyrics of a song (20:14) The tradition and art of storytelling (24:33) The value and purpose of sharing stories (42:34) The possible pitfalls of storytelling (52:10) What makes for a good story? (56:31) Robyn’s next couple of weeks (56:53) Michelle’s next couple of weeks (1:06:57) Outro
Resources, references, and further exploration:
Disney Dreamlight Valley (the game Robyn has been playing): https://disneydreamlightvalley.com/ Parks and Recreation (the television series Michelle has been watching): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1266020/ The Morning Show (the television series Robyn has been watching): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7203552/ Joseph Campbells Hero’s Journey: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hero's_journey Don’t Shave That Yak! - Seth Godin blog post: https://seths.blog/2005/03/dont_shave_that/
Books mentioned:
The Science of Storytelling by Will Storr: https://www.thescienceofstorytelling.com/ Walden by Henry David Thoreau: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Walden The Practice by Seth Godin: https://seths.blog/thepractice/
Definitions, clarifications, and fact checking:
For anyone curious, here is the definition of a florist:
“A florist specializes in the art of floral design and arrangement. Florists work with various types of fresh, dried, and artificial flowers to create beautiful bouquets, centerpieces, wreaths, and other floral displays for a wide range of occasions and events. They have a keen eye for color, texture, and design aesthetics, allowing them to arrange flowers in visually appealing and meaningful ways that suit the occasion or the customer's preferences. Florists may operate their own floral shops or work in flower stores, garden centers, event planning companies, and other related establishments.
In addition to creating floral arrangements, florists also provide valuable advice and recommendations to customers regarding flower selection, care, and appropriate arrangements for specific events or sentiments. They may work closely with clients to understand their needs and preferences, crafting custom designs to convey emotions, celebrate special moments, and enhance the overall atmosphere of weddings, funerals, birthdays, anniversaries, and other significant occasions.” Source: https://www.careerexplorer.com/careers/florist/
Jon Hamm fact check: So, Jon Hamm is listed as being active as an actor from 1996 to the present, so that would make him around 25 when he started. But he did teach eight-grade acting after he graduated college, and one of his students was indeed Ellie Kemper! Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jon_Hamm
Article - How Reading Fiction Increases Empathy and Encourages Understanding (there is a link to the study referenced as well, for anyone interested in reading that): https://www.discovermagazine.com/mind/how-reading-fiction-increases-empathy-and-encourages-understanding
Links:
Learn more about Robyn at https://www.robynlester.com/ Learn more about Michelle at https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/ Follow Stream of Art on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/streamofartpodcast/ Follow Robyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynlester.art/ Follow Michelle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellemonettemusic/ Subscribe to Michelle’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC64o4jtMmYWJE-7qVoLxtQA Please feel free to send questions and comments to streamofartpodcast@gmail.com Connect with like-minded artists and creatives at our Discord server: https://discord.gg/mHa8GSQqsv SOA September Spotify Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6fjUTgqUP1JG304gTQ8fkS?si=fb80b6eaee894205
Credits:
Podcast art by: Robyn Lester Theme music by: Michelle Monette Podcast editing by: Michelle Monette
Tuesday Aug 27, 2024
Episode 29 - Challenge Deep Dive
Tuesday Aug 27, 2024
Tuesday Aug 27, 2024
Life is full of challenges so in today’s episode, we each share a challenge we’re currently facing and what we’re doing to work through them. Robyn practices positivity and Michelle shares some appreciation for Mel Robbins.
Recorded on August 25th, 2024
Timestamps:
(0:18) Intro (0:57) Robyn’s check-in (5:37) Michelle’s check-in (8:29) Positivity (11:27) Main topic: challenge deep dive (14:01) Michelle’s challenge (46:48) Robyn’s challenge (1:12:49) Robyn’s next couple of weeks (1:13:44) Michelle’s next couple of weeks (1:14:38) SOA Playlist announcement (1:17:45) Outro
Resources, references, and further exploration:
Mel Robbins’ YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@melrobbinsWheel of Life Assessment: https://wheeloflife.noomii.com/ Notion Charts - Thomas Frank video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_D8MlBAk0A Michelle’s Blog Post “How I Healed My Relationship With Music”: https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/post/how-i-healed-my-relationship-with-music Elyse Myers video: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Ki-MuGQ0Lyg September’s SOA Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6fjUTgqUP1JG304gTQ8fkS?si=7ede8d2a4cd04d01
Books mentioned:
Nevermoor Series by Jessica Townsend: https://www.hachette.com.au/jessica-townsend/ The 5 Second Rule by Mel Robbins: https://www.melrobbins.com/books#the-5-second-rule The High 5 Habit by Mel Robbins: https://www.melrobbins.com/books#the-high-5-habit
Links:
Learn more about Robyn at https://www.robynlester.com/ Learn more about Michelle at https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/ Follow Stream of Art on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/streamofartpodcast/ Follow Robyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynlester.art/ Follow Michelle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellemonettemusic/ Subscribe to Michelle’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC64o4jtMmYWJE-7qVoLxtQA Please feel free to send questions and comments to streamofartpodcast@gmail.com Connect with like-minded artists and creatives at our Discord server: https://discord.gg/mHa8GSQqsv
Credits:
Podcast art by: Robyn Lester Theme music by: Michelle Monette Podcast editing by: Michelle Monette
Tuesday Aug 13, 2024
Episode 28 - Nostalgia
Tuesday Aug 13, 2024
Tuesday Aug 13, 2024
Those were the days! In this episode, we explore nostalgia—how we experience it, and how it can get in the way of us being fully present and embodied in the moment. We also discuss the Olympics, gratitude, some of our favourite nostalgia triggers. Robyn is inspired by Céline Dion’s comeback performance and Michelle starts a morning walking routine.
Recorded on August 11th, 2024
Timestamps:
(0:27) Intro(0:58) Fun/interesting thing(11:46) Michelle’s win, challenge, and fun/interesting thing(31:29) Main topic: Nostalgia(1:04:55) The role nostalgia plays in creating and consuming art (1:15:32) Favourite nostalgia triggers (1:31:38) Robyn’s upcoming plans (1:32:26) Michelle’s upcoming plans (1:34:12) Outro
Resources, references, and further exploration:
Bent Knee’s upcoming album Twenty Pills Without Water: https://bentknee.bandcamp.com/album/twenty-pills-without-water The Office - Andy Bernard - The good old days quote video clip: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Gvk0_6p_-sInternal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/therapy-types/internal-family-systems-therapy Jordan Rakei’s album What We Call Life: https://jordanrakei.bandcamp.com/album/what-we-call-life Grace Helbig’s cottage cheese recipes video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ItTQH-ZjGlk ”What are we doing tomorrow night, Brain?”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJYmyYzuTa8
Books mentioned:
Mel Robbins’ book The 5 Second Rule: https://www.melrobbins.com/books#the-5-second-rule
Quotes, ideas, and insights:
“Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.” - John Lennon, from the song “Beautiful Boy (Darling Boy)”
Links:
Learn more about Robyn at https://www.robynlester.com/ Learn more about Michelle at https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/ Follow Stream of Art on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/streamofartpodcast/ Follow Robyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynlester.art/ Follow Michelle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellemonettemusic/ Subscribe to Michelle’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC64o4jtMmYWJE-7qVoLxtQA Please feel free to send questions and comments to streamofartpodcast@gmail.com Connect with like-minded artists and creatives at our Discord server: https://discord.gg/mHa8GSQqsv
Credits:
Podcast art by: Robyn Lester Theme music by: Michelle Monette Podcast editing by: Michelle Monette
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Episode 27 - Artistic Identity
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
In this episode, we attempt to tackle the topic of artistic identity. What is it? When is adopting an artistic identity helpful, and when might it become an issue? Robyn’s dog turns to a life of crime, and Michelle is having a hard time writing the lyrics for a song.
Recorded on July 20th, 2024
Timestamps:
(0:30) Intro (0:46) Robyn’s fun/interesting thing (3:01) Michelle’s win, challenge, and fun/interesting thing (11:22) Summertime nostalgia (14:35) Main topic: artistic identity (19:24) The possible benefits of taking on an artistic identity (38:40) The possible pitfalls of taking on an artistic identity (54:19) Robyn’s next few weeks (55:27) Michelle’s next few weeks (58:28) Outro
Resources, references, and further exploration:
Mark Lettieri’s new album Can I Tell You Something?: https://www.marklettieri.com/can-i-tell-you-something Michelle’s blog post on doing what you say: https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/post/do-as-you-say Michelle’s blog post on healing her relationship with music: https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/post/how-i-healed-my-relationship-with-music
Books mentioned:
Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://jamesclear.com/atomic-habits Master of Change by Brad Stulberg: https://www.bradstulberg.com/books
Links:
Learn more about Robyn at https://www.robynlester.com/ Learn more about Michelle at https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/ Follow Stream of Art on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/streamofartpodcast/ Follow Robyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynlester.art/ Follow Michelle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellemonettemusic/ Subscribe to Michelle’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC64o4jtMmYWJE-7qVoLxtQA Please feel free to send questions and comments to streamofartpodcast@gmail.com Connect with like-minded artists and creatives at our Discord server: https://discord.gg/mHa8GSQqsv
Credits:
Podcast art by: Robyn Lester Theme music by: Michelle Monette Podcast editing by: Michelle Monette
Tuesday Jul 16, 2024
Episode 26 - Regret and "Shoulds"
Tuesday Jul 16, 2024
Tuesday Jul 16, 2024
In this episode, we explore regrets and “shoulds”. We consider in what ways they’re related, how they hold us back, and what perspectives might help us to live our lives more on our own terms. Robyn organizes her closet and Michelle goes to the movies.
Recorded on July 14th, 2024
Timestamps:
(0:28) Intro (0:50) Robyn’s win, challenge, and fun/interesting thing from the last two weeks (2:34) Michelle’s win, challenge, and fun/interesting thing from the last two weeks (8:12) SPOILER WARNING for A Quiet Place: Day One (12:01) End of spoilers (18:51) Main topic: regret and “shoulds” (1:23:48) Michelle’s plans for the next couple of weeks (1:24:53) Robyn’s plans for the next couple of weeks (1:28:49) Outro
Resources, references, and further exploration:
Show - Little Bird: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt22750834/
Video - Unpopular Opinion: Nothing in Life is a Waste of Time - How to ADHD: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=662g7IjfY9s&t=347s
Video - Using Lifestyle-Centric Career Planning to Pursue a Life You Love - Cal Newport: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TpSlr5TYAEw
Video - Mel Robbins: 5 Second Rule: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nI2VQ-ZsNr0
Podcast - Episode 23 - Setting Up Your Creative Environment - Stream of Art Podcast: https://streamofartpodcast.podbean.com/e/episode-23-setting-up-your-creative-environment/
Books mentioned:
We Are the Luckiest by Laura McKowen: https://www.lauramckowen.com/books
The Midnight Library by Matt Haig: http://www.matthaig.com/books/midnight-library/
Courage is Calling by Ryan Holiday: https://www.courageiscalling.com/
Range by David Epstein: https://davidepstein.com/range/
Clear Thinking by Shane Parrish: https://fs.blog/clear/
So Good They Can’t Ignore You by Cal Newport: https://calnewport.com/writing/ (scroll down the page)
The Practice of Groundedness by Brad Stulberg: https://www.bradstulberg.com/books (scroll down the page)
The 5 Second Rule by Mel Robbins: https://www.melrobbins.com/5secondrule
Quotes, ideas, and insights:
Amor Fati - The love of fate: https://dailystoic.com/amor-fati/
“What man can you give me who puts any value on time, who counts a day, who understands that he dies daily? This is our big mistake: to think we look forward to death. Most of death is already gone. Whatever time has passed is owned by death.” - Seneca - Sources: https://dailystoic.com/letters-from-a-stoic/?utm_source=convertkit&utm_medium=convertkit&utm_campaign=dying-every-day https://dailystoic.com/you-are-dying-every-day/
“One way to see Nightingale’s story is that she spent years ignoring her call to service. The other is that she was preparing herself for the mission of her life. It took time for her to see through the smoke and noise of the family and society that attempted to discourage her from doing what needed to be done. It took time for her to acquire the skills she needs to transform nursing.” - Ryan Holiday, Courage is Calling, page 10
“The satisfactions of manifesting oneself concretely in the world through manual competence have been known to make a man quiet and easy.” - Matthew B. Crawford, Shop Class as Soulcraft
“Stop shoulding yourself. Shift from an internal dialogue of I shouldn’t be in this situation to I wish I wasn’t in this situation; from I should be going about this differently to I want to be going about this differently. Language shapes reality, and these subtle shifts go a long way toward eliminating guilt, shame, and judgment and fostering self-compassion instead. When you catch yourself shoulding, try using another word and see what happens.” - Brad Stulberg, The Practice of Groundedness, pages 49-50
Links:
Learn more about Robyn at https://www.robynlester.com/Learn more about Michelle at https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/Follow Stream of Art on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/streamofartpodcast/Follow Robyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynlester.art/Follow Michelle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellemonettemusic/Subscribe to Michelle’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC64o4jtMmYWJE-7qVoLxtQAPlease feel free to send questions and comments to streamofartpodcast@gmail.comConnect with like-minded artists and creatives at our Discord server: https://discord.gg/mHa8GSQqsv
Credits:
Podcast art by: Robyn LesterTheme music by: Michelle MonettePodcast editing by: Michelle Monette
Tuesday Jul 02, 2024
Episode 25 - 2024 Midpoint Check-In
Tuesday Jul 02, 2024
Tuesday Jul 02, 2024
In this episode, we reflect on the first six months of 2024 and share our plans for the rest of the year. Robyn has a successful art show (despite getting rained out!) and Michelle rekindles her love of reading.
Recorded on June 30th, 2024
Timestamps:
(0:33) Intro (0:52) Robyn’s win, challenge, and fun/interesting thing (3:57) Michelle’s win, challenge, and fun/interesting thing (10:20) Robyn’s 2024 check-in (31:17) Michelle’s 2024 check-in (1:10:36) Robyn’s plans for the next couple of weeks (1:11:08) Michelle’s plans for the next couple of weeks (1:19:25) Outro
Resources, references, and further exploration:
Clip from The Simpsons episode Lisa’s Wedding: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jEqsuNwNojI
Books mentioned:
Apostles of Mercy (Book 3 in the Noumena series) by Lindsay Ellis: https://read.macmillan.com/lp/apostles-of-mercy/ The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselmen: https://dailystoic.com/books/ Push Off From Here by Laura McKowen: https://www.lauramckowen.com/books/push-off-from-here The Way of Integrity by Martha Beck: https://marthabeck.com/the-way-of-integrity/
Quotes, ideas, and insights:
The End of History Illusion: “In 2013, (Daniel) Gilbert, along with researchers Jordi Quoidbach and Timothy Wilson, conducted an extensive study of more than nineteen thousand people between the ages of eighteen and sixty-eight. They asked a series of questions designed to get at whether the subjects thought they had changed much in the past, and whether they believed they would change in the future. The results across the board, regardless of age, were the same: People uniformly believed they’d grown and changed in the past, but when it came to the future, they predicted they wouldn’t change at all. In other words, we believe history ends here in this moment—that all we’ll experience in the future is what we’re experiencing right now. Especially when we’re in pain.” - Laura McKowen, Push Off From Here, pages 91 and 92.
“Every event has two handles, one by which it can be carried, and one by which it can’t. If your brother does you wrong, don’t grab it by his wronging, because this is the handle incapable of lifting it. Instead, use the other—that he is your brother, that you were raised together, and then you will have hold of the handle that carries.” - Epictetus; Source: https://ryanholiday.net/two-handles/
Links:
Learn more about Robyn at https://www.robynlester.com/
Learn more about Michelle at https://www.michellemonettemusic.com/
Follow Stream of Art on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/streamofartpodcast/
Follow Robyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynlester.art/
Follow Michelle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michellemonettemusic/
Subscribe to Michelle’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC64o4jtMmYWJE-7qVoLxtQA
Please feel free to send questions and comments to streamofartpodcast@gmail.com
Connect with like-minded artists and creatives at our Discord server: https://discord.gg/mHa8GSQqsv
Credits:
Podcast art by: Robyn Lester
Theme music by: Michelle Monette
Podcast editing by: Michelle Monette